Sunday, April 21, 2019

have you ever wish to see a dream come true??

we all have dreams or wishes, big or small, fancy or simple... it doesn't matter , these dreams make us wake up in the morning with a target to reach.
sometimes my dream is to go back to the gym as simple as that, sometimes is to eat avocados.

so how about we start planning for them, a simple paper and pen, if you are a nerd you can use you app, if you are girly you get your bullet journal, anyway it doesn't matter, just start, list what you want to do, it can be personal or professional, for each item fix the time, ( how many times you will do it? from when to when?)

give a priority, maybe going to the dentist for your annual visit is more important than getting the latest sneakers or may be not, it depends on you.

your plan your decision.

stick to it!!!and actually this is the most difficult part, the way i do it is for a month for example i get a paper on the wall with the list of what i have to do and everytime i finish my task i put a pin at the end of the month i will check if this task has became on habit or not.

now some dreams need preparation , and financial support and for those take your time, you want to go for an event or to visit a country, start a year ahead, check the budget needed, and see if you can get it in the coming 12 months, buy the ticket, and build the itinerary you want.

it takes time and discipline to see a dream come true but it's not impossible!!!
go for it, don;t be scared the worst scenario is that tomorrow will be exactly the same as today!!! 

I loved.... I Lost

in our daily life, we meet people that can impact our life, with their words, their smile or just the way they are.
and just like that , i sometimes meet amazing soul, that connect and complete my way of being in a smooth and natural way, unfortunately i forget most of the time that the image i send on different events is not the real me, that my broken soul doesn't show itself until the lights are off and the darkness takes the room.

and when that frighten , confused heart and soul try to connect with the person, obviously they will be pushed away, because they are sooo different from the energetic, positive, motivating person they have seen.

there are two people in me, the smiling energetic that tries to give her best to everyone and make them feel good, and the broken soul that will try to connect to the closest person.

if you love me, and i love you, it means i have to be me, and if me today is sad , confused, scared and not able to express herself, you cannot blame me that i am not smiling and energetic like i can be with a total stranger, it is unfair yes, but life is unfair.

the moment you see the real me, it means you are fully part of my life and you are important

i lost you in a stupid way but i learned that i should  protect myself from those that are not ready to see who i am in the real life.

Thanks for the lesson!!!