2017 has started on an emotional way for me, which can be good or bad depending how i manage it.
To get motivation and keep going with life i have watch many videos, tedtalks about happiness, couples therapy etc... and i found myself relating to few situations
how many times anyone of us have we been in a relationship and we heard our self saying i need you in my life, i can;t live without you, i can't face life without you? and then after a week, a month a year the relationship slow down, we see our selves falling out of love, and moving on.
but how about all those words we have exchanged, how about all these promises we had, were we lying to each others? I don;t think so, the moment i said i cannot live without you i meant it, from all my heart mind and soul, but right now i am not with you and i am still alive and fine.
We have that ability to forget through the time, that make us able to move on and reconstruct our self, but i started to belive that if we stop lying to ourself life would be easier.
it would be more realistic to say honey , right now i am so in love with you, all what i want is to spend a quite evening with you, than saying, i love you so much i can never be happy without you in my life.
moving on step by step, enjoying every single happiness moment, without extrapolation to an unknown future is what makes happiness last longer.
Everyday, i learn more about myself, and i try to keep stronger !!!
To get motivation and keep going with life i have watch many videos, tedtalks about happiness, couples therapy etc... and i found myself relating to few situations
how many times anyone of us have we been in a relationship and we heard our self saying i need you in my life, i can;t live without you, i can't face life without you? and then after a week, a month a year the relationship slow down, we see our selves falling out of love, and moving on.
but how about all those words we have exchanged, how about all these promises we had, were we lying to each others? I don;t think so, the moment i said i cannot live without you i meant it, from all my heart mind and soul, but right now i am not with you and i am still alive and fine.
We have that ability to forget through the time, that make us able to move on and reconstruct our self, but i started to belive that if we stop lying to ourself life would be easier.
it would be more realistic to say honey , right now i am so in love with you, all what i want is to spend a quite evening with you, than saying, i love you so much i can never be happy without you in my life.
moving on step by step, enjoying every single happiness moment, without extrapolation to an unknown future is what makes happiness last longer.
Everyday, i learn more about myself, and i try to keep stronger !!!
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